Life creates change and pushes the self to evolve and become creative loving citizens. However during this process change may also be perceived as a negative life event. On the other hand it is possible to learn compassion, love, hope, and a long list of other things. St. John of the Cross has been recorded as saying that, “the purest suffering produces the purest understanding.” If your parents never loved you, your experiencing a death, you were raised in poverty, you were abused, abandoned, in a war, or whatever is creating a negative feeling, know that it will pass. Every negative human emotion will change with time. Know that you were born with greatness, and all the God like qualities needed to overcome anything. Take the first step towards you’re a positive reality and stay the course because the rest will come together for you. Have the faith that whatever you want will arrive. If you feel like you’re going through hell and the dark clouds are raining demons on you, know that this cause does not have to have an effect. You don’t have to complete the equation, because without an effect there can be no cause, they need each other to affect your reality. Try to separate yourself from the effect you are experiencing, by asking if it will matter 5 years from now. This question will allow the problem to loosen its grip on you. After you have envisioned your problem 5, 10, or 20, years from now, remind yourself how insignificant it will feel to you in the future. Think about the stress a piece of metal goes through in order to become a shiny, sharp sword. It may help to envision a sword stuck in some hot coals and a big hammer hitting down on it. It will take many blows from the hammer in order for the sword to have any strength.
You can use the blacksmith image to see how your situation can evolve into a lesson. Evoke or imagine any symbol or idea that makes you feel strong. Once you feel that you have escaped the unwanted emotion or turmoil, cloak yourself with a shield made out of inspiration. Use books, tokens, charms, or any object that evokes a positive feeling. Surround yourself with people that Love you and believe in you. Explore the ways that others have been inspired, or try inspiring others. Try helping others or engaging in doing something special for someone else. Try connecting with books, magazines, or stories about miracles, saints, or other positive sources. Bookstores, libraries and the Internet are packed with inspirational stories, parables, or fables. Some stories may provide a sense of being grateful since your shortcomings were not as big or important as you originally thought.
vaya con dios





